Freedom from Dependence
Photo Credit: Osho Insights Freedom from Dependence Freedom from dependence is one of the most liberating states of being. To live in the present moment means to be so deeply rooted in oneself that the absence or presence of anyone does not disturb our peace. This is not indifference, nor is it coldness. It is true freedom. It is the recognition that while we love others, our inner stability does not depend on them. From the moment we are born, we begin to form attachments. We depend on family for love, on friends for companionship, on society for recognition, and on work for identity. These connections are natural and necessary, but when our peace becomes dependent on them, suffering arises. If someone praises us, we feel elated; if someone criticises us, we feel wounded. If loved ones are near, we feel secure; if they are absent, we feel lonely. In every case, our inner state is dictated by external circumstances. This is dependence, and dependence binds us to illusion. F...