The spirit of Giving and the Joy of Charity

All through my childhood I have seen my parents giving a helping hand to all those who came to us for help. That philosophy is probably now ingrained in my psyche. One should always remember that the good you do in life is always rewarded in this life itself - it's called cause and effect. Whatever you do - good or bad - the after effects are always enjoyed or suffered in this life here on earth, either by you or by your offspring. It is extremely important to live life honestly and simply - "do good always" should be your motto. God has not made all men equal economically - but all that depends on the individuals past "karma" and each individual has the opportunity to do good and improve to have a better future now and in the hereafter.

Every person is born with two things - a body and a soul. At the time of passing away a person leaves behind the body and takes the soul. But the body is not the only thing he leaves behind - he also leaves behind memories for his near and dear ones and also all his worldly possessions. It is important to leave behind only good memories and that can only be done if you live a life of joy for yourself and for all those who come in touch with you. It is a very simple philosophy. The day you decide to accept with equanimity and a smile all your joys and sorrows - without being overjoyed or stooped in sorrow - you will be at peace with yourself as well as with the world. There is a Qawali which you must listen to if you want to understand what life is - "Chadta Sooraj Dhire Dhire....". It is really profound and you will recall real life instances which you may have personally experienced once you listen to it!

This brings me to the Joy of Charity. To me - it has always been a philosophy of giving to the underprivileged or in helping established Charities who do good work by way of monetory contribution. In todays busy world, you may not always be able to actually spare your personal time to physically help the underprivileged - hence the need and desire to identify Charities who do good work and help them monetorily.

I feel really sad for people who when approached for Charity contributions end up saying they cannot contribute or are in need of Charity themselves. These are all good, educated people with jobs who do not have financial insecurities. Surprising that they cannot spare even ten percent of their monthly salary!! For these people I pray that their situation in life always remains stable and good, because God forbid if things turn bad and when they need help they may not find a helping hand close by. This happens because of the rule of cause and effect which I have earlier mentioned.