You are the Best!!

 

You are the Best!!

People pass judgement on others so easily; it is like second nature to them. Many of us are victims of such comments and sometimes we too end up passing judgement on others! This could be with friends, colleagues or with whatever is happening all around the world. Unfortunately, when such comments are passed, invariably we do so even though we know only one side of the story. We look at events or incidents from our own point of view. We may not be knowing the reason why a person behaved in a certain way or said something. Human tendency is to blow things out of proportion and pass judgement – so and so said this, he has no sense, how dare he say something like this, etc.

Before we pass judgement or come to any conclusion, it has been my experience that it is best to put ourselves in the other persons shoes to figure out why he said whatever he did or why he behaved in that manner. If we take the trouble to find out we may learn of extenuating circumstances that we never knew of which actually justifies why a person said something or behaved in a certain manner. That is something which we must all learn to do. If we learn to put ourselves in other people’s shoes, we will always know both sides of the story rather than passing judgement with half knowledge!

So, whenever someone passes comments against you and judges you without having full knowledge of the circumstances, just smile and remember that you are the best person that God made. You are unique and you have been made in His mould. Forgive that person, ignore the comment and move on in life.

When you start meditating and begin creating that inner peace and calm, such comments will never bother you, because you KNOW who and what you are – nobody can be a better judge of you than you yourself. Be confident in the knowledge that YOU ARE THE BEST!