Imposing Your Will
All of us have a very strong sense of identity and
many times we feel hurt if things do not go as we wish them to! Whether it is
school, friends, colleagues, business situations we try to impose our will so
that things go the way we want them to. Many times, this work and many other
times it does not! When it does work it gives a boost to our ego – we think –
see I willed this to happen and it did, ‘my’ will power is strong, I can will
it to do anything! This is your ego dominating your thinking.
When the ego starts dominating your thinking
process then rest assured you are headed for a thumping fall sooner or later –
the universe always gives a person who is on an ego trip a reality check. It is
extremely important to be aware of what one says and does on the spiritual
path.
Meditation under the guidance of a spiritual Master
takes you on your inner journey. During the course of this journey a lot of
things become clearer, your mind becomes quieter, your ego takes a back seat,
and you start ‘seeing’ things more as a witness than as a participant. Once
this happens, you realise that you cannot force anything: conversations,
friendships, relationships, attention, love! Anything that is forced or induced
or willed is just not worth fighting for – because whatever flows, flows and
what crashes, just crashes.
It is best to learn to go with the flow rather than
swim against the tide. Swimming against the tide will only tire you out and at
the same time either take you far away from your destination or leave you
stationary at the starting point. Either way that is not good as energy is
spent and your goal is not achieved.
When you meditate and learn to tune yourself to the
universe, you get the signals, indications from the universe itself on what is
going to happen. When this starts happening, then your will starts working for
Paramatma or for the Supreme Soul, it works for the benefit of humanity and not
for personal gain. You start going with the flow, completely mindful of what is
happening – you become a witness and start seeing things as they are and not as
in the past about how you would have wished them to be.
1 comment:
So nicely explained. The transformation journey is the essence.. 🙏🙏
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