Life is a School
It is said that life is the greatest teacher and the world is the
best university. Whatever we learn in school, college, university is put to the
test in the big bad world, and many times we realise that what we have been
taught is far removed from reality. Most of us have learnt the ropes of our
chosen profession on the job, in real time. Whatever we have learnt only remain
as guidelines in carrying out our professional jobs – nobody teaches us office
politics, behavioural science, how to tackle certain situations, how to face
crisis? All these are learnt in the hard way – right on the job!
Whatever life is throwing at us is because the universe feels we
have not learnt our lesson, and unless we learn that lesson, we cannot really
move on. We keep reincarnating birth after birth till the time we learn that particular
lesson, based on our karma, and we become more skilled at life and dealing with
its inevitable stresses and challenges.
Our Masters keep telling us that everything in life that happens to
us is for a reason. In other words, in each difficult experience there is a
lesson specifically for us. So, for the person who is on the spiritual path
really should develop qualities needed to develop resilience, and should have
the ability to look at life and ask, “Why did this happen? What lesson is there
in it for me?”
After I started out on the spiritual path these questions started
coming to me from within, and once I learnt to accept the situations and learn
my lessons, I found myself being more a t peace, I started becoming calmer and
calmer as opposed to the volcanic reactions I would some times have in the
past. The change has been drastic as the lessons are being learnt in real time.
There are two particular cases which I avoided in my earlier working days and I
thought I had escaped those situations. But similar situations with ten times
greater stress came about once I started meditation; the advantage was now I could
look back and realise why these situations had come about – so, this time I
just faced the situations and moved on – the Master ensured I remained
protected, for which I am ever grateful!
In the Bhagawad Gita it is said – “The cosmic law sees to it that
those duties which come to man in the natural course of his life are those he
is meant to perform for his own welfare.” There are no mistakes, everything is
according to the cosmic plan.
So, when we react to the things that happen to us in a negative
manner – that is not the way in which a meditator should act in such a
situation – that means we are not learning our lesson. That lesson has come for
‘our own welfare’. If we don’t overcome what we have to face then that becomes
a barrier to our spiritual progress.
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